I am not sad that this morsel is all that remains of the french lemon yogurt cake. I am bewildered.
That last, little chunk wasn’t left because someone was too full. It was left so they could legitimize not washing the cake plate or knife.
In Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting Out of the Box, by The Arbinger Institute, when we do something contrary to what we know we should do, it’s an act of self-betrayal. Betray oneself enough and pretty soon we start seeing the world in a way that justifies our action. As you can imagine this is a slippery slope that leads to all sorts of bad feelings (like resentment) and dinged relationships. Unknowingly, living a web of self-deception ultimately provokes those around you to also “live in the box”. While the plot of the book is a bit contrived, it does provide a structure for this thought-provoking work.
Yet another reason I adore my dog, Dougal. Given the access, he would have gobbled the whole cake with complete integrity.